I want to know if a child has to go to a pediatric dentist. While the dentist I have been taking my children to is very good with children, he has a real problem with adults. I think his big problem is being questioned. He needs to remember that we are the parents and the ones ultimately responsible. For instance, today he suggested a pulpotomy. I asked him why it was necessary and what the other options are. Yet, instead of explaining the alternatives and why he’s recommending this particular one, he looks at my child and says, “It sounds like mommy needs to learn how to trust the experts.” I didn’t appreciate him saying that at all. She is my child. I need to know exactly what is happening to her. Plus, belittling me in front of my child is NOT okay. I want a dentist I can talk to who will treat me like an intelligent human being. Is it absolutely necessary for a child to see a pediatric dentist?
Catrina
Dear Catrina,
This is totally unacceptable for him to treat you that way. And let’s be honest, the experts aren’t infallible as we’ve seen recently in the back and forth of recommendations with COVID-19 lately. It’s always important to gather all the information we can before making health decisions.
Before we discuss a pediatric dentist, I want to make sure you understand what a pulpotomy is and when it is useful. A pulpotomy is the child’s version of a root canal treatment. It should only be considered on an infected back tooth. They need to be kept in place until your child is around 10-12 years old, when their new molars come in. If that space remains open, the other teeth will shift into the open spot, causing crowding and the need for orthodontics later on. Another option, if the tooth can’t be saved or if you don’t want the pulpotomy is to extract the tooth. Just make sure the dentist puts a space maintainer there to hold the space open.
Children Can See a Family Dentist
As to whether your child needs to see a pediatric dentist, the answer is no. It is perfectly acceptable for them to go to a general dentist or family dentist who works well with children. They are completely qualified and even did a pediatric rotation.
There is also a benefit to having your whole family treated by the same dentist. They will know a lot more about your family’s oral health makeup and genetics which can lead to early intervention for your child.
I hope this puts your mind at ease.
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